She sure is popular.

For a baby many people thought we were crazy to want.
I once heard an adoptive mom say how sad it was that people thought they were silly to add to their family of 4 children in such a way. She wondered, would people still be critical if I said I was pregnant again?
Yes, they would. Probably not as much so, but still critical.
It's obvious those poor folks haven't experienced the joy of a Clover True in their lives. And, I'm guessing those adoptive parents might pity the critics who can not fathom the beauty of parenting the fatherless and making them one of your very own.